I have friends who are getting married, expecting a child, taking up new jobs, and even, going to study abroad. While all this good news fills me with so much excitement for each of them, I have at times found myself having mixed feelings. No, it’s not jealousy, but a certain sense of…
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6 Unique Date Ideas That Don’t Involve Alcohol
Getting to know someone is such a hustle especially when your only idea is food or cocktails. As much of a hustle as it may be, it is a necessary step in forming or even building a relationship. So, what is your kind of date? If going out for a few drinks is…
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How To Be There for A Friend Besides Being There In Person
For a such long time after campus, many of my friends moved back to their different hometowns. Others went on to get good jobs, get babies and even others started their own businesses. Because my university was located within my hometown, I did not move anywhere. I did not have a job, wasn’t…
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Things You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship
Let’s face it. So many people talk about how hard relationships and marriages are. But to be honest, there’s nothing easy, or is there? While every relationship is different, no relationship is perfect. Whether you’ve been dating for days, weeks, months, or even years, relationships are created from commitment and are continued due…
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Intentionality In Friendships
As an introvert, sometimes you may be fooled to believe that I don’t have friends because well, I love being alone. I’m just here to let you know that I do have friends. The circle is small, but I have been very intentional in choosing my friends because, for me, they are the…
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Signs You’re Trying To Force A Relationship That Just Isn’t Right
Let me tell you a story…about how I met someone I thought was the one until he wasn’t (he is definitely not reading this, so we are safe 😅). Let’s go back to when it all began. This happened about six years ago. We were texting every day, going on dates whenever we could,…
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Blogmas Day 7: 5 Things I Wish I Told Myself When I Was In That Bad Relationship
I’m not sure about y’all, but I know I have been in a relationship that just about everyone knew was wrong for us except ourselves. To be honest, it’s never easy getting out of such relationships. Despite it being a never-ending roller coaster you can’t seem to hop off of, you will. Trust…
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4 Things To Stop Saying To Your Single Friends
Happy New Month friends!! I can’t believe we have less than 60 days to the end of this year that has been… a lot! Speaking of a lot, relationships have to be one of the ‘a lots’ for me. One thing I have learned in my few (not so few) years of dating…
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Newly Dating? Advice For Your New Relationship
With the world slowly opening up, it is a good time to get out and mingle – of course within the stipulated guidelines. New relationships come with so much excitement and plans for the future and the thrill to know each other better. But what will keep you together many months (and years)…
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Embracing The Seasons Of Life
Recently, I was having a conversation with my best friend, and we got talking about why people go to university right after high school. Is it because they want to, or is it because they have been conditioned to think that that should be the next step in life? Please comment below why…